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the discussion of maturity and love
Monday. 3.1.10 4:50 pm
so how long is it acceptable to tell someone you love them? a year? two weeks? two months?


Can you put a time on an emotion? Its hard to say when you love someone. Is it when you are thinking of them but in a way that you want whats best for them. Is it when you care about their health and their emotional problems. Is it when you would do anything to help them in any way you can? When can you honestly say you love someone?




I would do anything to help him in any problem or situation he has. I would comfort him and be there for him. But i dont honestly think i love him yet. And we havent said the word but im just wondering when is it going to hit me? and when will it be acceptable to say it to him when it does?
5 Comments.


It's acceptable to say when you honestly feel it. I don't think there is a set time for that. One of my favorite sayings is "It takes no time to fall in love, but it takes you years to know what love is"
» lyndeep on 2010-03-01 05:28:04

i like what lyndeep says.
» acidbathx on 2010-03-02 06:57:53

Loving someone is sacrificing for them completely unselfishly. It's a simple concept with ridiculously serious implications. Even people in the most serious of relationships can misunderstand their motivations, especially kids like us...I've been there. Loving someone is hard because being unselfish is hard.

But you still love people outside of that. Frankly, I don't think it's a big deal to say you love someone; I love most of my friends, and would tell them that, including the girls. I know that's not what you mean, but the love you're talking about should ideally grow out of the love I'm talking about. At least, that's what I think.

Don't sweat it. It's not like saying "I love you" should change anything. It shouldn't be a ceremony or anything.
» middaymoon on 2010-03-02 10:45:57

RE
I don't really think it's a sad saying, it's actually part of one of my favorite songs and it's a pretty uplifting one. It's called Life is Wonderful by Jason Mraz if your interested.


» lyndeep on 2010-03-03 09:40:49

Haha!
Yeah, my lunch table is basically awesome.
» middaymoon on 2010-03-03 09:22:07

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